by Nicole Bolotenko | May 20, 2026 | Conflict, Infidelity, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Separation & Divorce, Trauma - PTSD
“Why Can’t I Just Get Over It?” After discovering infidelity, many people say the same thing: “I feel like I’m going crazy.” You might replay conversations, check your partner’s phone, or wake up with a racing heart. You may swing between numbness and panic, or feel...
by Nicole Bolotenko | Oct 28, 2025 | Infidelity, Love & Relationships, Marriage
When the World Suddenly Feels Unreal Discovering infidelity can feel like the floor has dropped out from under you. One moment, your world feels familiar — and the next, everything you believed in feels shattered. It’s common to feel numb, panicked, enraged, or...
by Nicole Bolotenko | May 22, 2025 | Anger Management, Change, Conflict, Crisis, Infidelity, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Separation & Divorce, Sexuality
by Janis Abrahms Spring How do you forgive your partner when they do not take responsibilities for their transgressions? (With this question we are taking the position that this may be a major transgression like an affair) Often we hear from clients that they feel the...
by Nicole Bolotenko | May 14, 2025 | Change, Conflict, Family, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Mental Health
The other day I was waiting in line and a couple behind me were talking about the tons of errands, responsibilities and chores they had to get done. “We have to get the groceries done, but then we gotta make dinner and take Joey to hockey.” “But I have to finish up...
by Finding Solutions Together | May 3, 2025 | Anxiety, Change, Cooperative Parenting, Family, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Separation & Divorce
A Formidable Weapon Against Adversity… Hope I wouldn’t recommend a divorce as a pathway for personal growth, but this is exactly what happened to me. I was married for almost 10 years, and was abruptly separated after my wife decided to leave the marriage. While...
by Finding Solutions Together | Mar 5, 2025 | Change, Conflict, Crisis, Infidelity, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Problem-Solving, Separation & Divorce
Is the Impossible Truly Possible? The outcome hinges on our mindset. When lies and betrayal have taken over a relationship, it’s natural for couples to consider ending things. Often, this decision isn’t driven by a lack of love, but rather by the automatic...
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