by Nicole Bolotenko | May 20, 2026 | Conflict, Infidelity, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Separation & Divorce, Trauma - PTSD
“Why Can’t I Just Get Over It?” After discovering infidelity, many people say the same thing: “I feel like I’m going crazy.” You might replay conversations, check your partner’s phone, or wake up with a racing heart. You may swing between numbness and panic, or feel...
by Nicole Bolotenko | Oct 28, 2025 | Infidelity, Love & Relationships, Marriage
When the World Suddenly Feels Unreal Discovering infidelity can feel like the floor has dropped out from under you. One moment, your world feels familiar — and the next, everything you believed in feels shattered. It’s common to feel numb, panicked, enraged, or...
by Nicole Bolotenko | May 22, 2025 | Anger Management, Change, Conflict, Crisis, Infidelity, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Separation & Divorce, Sexuality
by Janis Abrahms Spring How do you forgive your partner when they do not take responsibilities for their transgressions? (With this question we are taking the position that this may be a major transgression like an affair) Often we hear from clients that they feel the...
by Finding Solutions Together | Apr 26, 2025 | Addiction & Substance Misuse, Anger Management, Health & Fitness, Infidelity, Sexuality, Stress, Work & Employment
“Have a Snickers” as a decision maker? There are often times when we make rash or quick decisions and when we look back on them we say, “Why did I do that?”or “Why did I eat that?” Sometimes its because we’re bored, other times its because we are looking...
by Finding Solutions Together | Mar 7, 2025 | Addiction & Substance Misuse, Anxiety, Conflict, Infidelity
What is it about smooth stones, weathered over centuries by the relentless tumbling of waves and currents, that we find so captivating? As stormy, turbulent waters repeatedly crash rocks into one another, their sharp edges chip away, transforming jagged stones into...
by Finding Solutions Together | Mar 5, 2025 | Change, Conflict, Crisis, Infidelity, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Problem-Solving, Separation & Divorce
Is the Impossible Truly Possible? The outcome hinges on our mindset. When lies and betrayal have taken over a relationship, it’s natural for couples to consider ending things. Often, this decision isn’t driven by a lack of love, but rather by the automatic...
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