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When Betrayal Feels Like Trauma: Why Discovering Infidelity Shakes Your Nervous System

When Betrayal Feels Like Trauma: Why Discovering Infidelity Shakes Your Nervous System

by Nicole Bolotenko | May 20, 2026 | Conflict, Infidelity, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Separation & Divorce, Trauma - PTSD

“Why Can’t I Just Get Over It?” After discovering infidelity, many people say the same thing: “I feel like I’m going crazy.” You might replay conversations, check your partner’s phone, or wake up with a racing heart. You may swing between numbness and panic, or feel...
After The Affair

After The Affair

by Nicole Bolotenko | May 22, 2025 | Anger Management, Change, Conflict, Crisis, Infidelity, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Separation & Divorce, Sexuality

by Janis Abrahms Spring How do you forgive your partner when they do not take responsibilities for their transgressions? (With this question we are taking the position that this may be a major transgression like an affair) Often we hear from clients that they feel the...
Why are we so afraid to set boundaries?

Why are we so afraid to set boundaries?

by Finding Solutions Together | May 15, 2025 | Conflict, Crisis, Family, Love & Relationships, Parenting

Whether you are a parent who appears to have a teenager “running the household,” or you are in a romantic relationship and feel you’ve “lost who you are as an individual,” they both may stem from the difficulty of setting effective boundaries in your relationships....

Stop the Complaining Voice Today!

by Nicole Bolotenko | May 14, 2025 | Change, Conflict, Family, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Mental Health

The other day I was waiting in line and a couple behind me were talking about the tons of errands, responsibilities and chores they had to get done. “We have to get the groceries done, but then we gotta make dinner and take Joey to hockey.” “But I have to finish up...
“My Child is Lying All The Time… What Can I Do?”

“My Child is Lying All The Time… What Can I Do?”

by Finding Solutions Together | May 8, 2025 | Blended Family, Children & Adolescence, Conflict, Family, Parenting

No More Grounding Teens Please

No More Grounding Teens Please

by Finding Solutions Together | Apr 29, 2025 | Conflict, Family, Growth & Development, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Parenting, Problem-Solving, Self-Care, Teens, Work & Employment

While taking stuff away and grounding children from going out may be common and an easy approach (possibly one our parents used) it is really a “last resort” discipline strategy. When we think of adjusting our children’s thinking to improve emotional...
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