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Discovering Infidelity: Grounding Yourself Before Making Big Decisions

Discovering Infidelity: Grounding Yourself Before Making Big Decisions

by Nicole Bolotenko | Oct 28, 2025 | Infidelity, Love & Relationships, Marriage

When the World Suddenly Feels Unreal  Discovering infidelity can feel like the floor has dropped out from under you. One moment, your world feels familiar — and the next, everything you believed in feels shattered. It’s common to feel numb, panicked, enraged, or...
After The Affair

After The Affair

by Nicole Bolotenko | May 22, 2025 | Anger Management, Change, Conflict, Crisis, Infidelity, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Separation & Divorce, Sexuality

by Janis Abrahms Spring How do you forgive your partner when they do not take responsibilities for their transgressions? (With this question we are taking the position that this may be a major transgression like an affair) Often we hear from clients that they feel the...

HALT Poor Decision Making

by Finding Solutions Together | Apr 26, 2025 | Addiction & Substance Misuse, Anger Management, Health & Fitness, Infidelity, Sexuality, Stress, Work & Employment

“Have a Snickers” as a decision maker? There are often times when we make rash or quick decisions and when we look back on them we say, “Why did I do that?”or “Why did I eat that?” Sometimes its because we’re bored, other times its because we are looking...
Struggles Shape Us

Struggles Shape Us

by Finding Solutions Together | Mar 7, 2025 | Addiction & Substance Misuse, Anxiety, Conflict, Infidelity

What is it about smooth stones, weathered over centuries by the relentless tumbling of waves and currents, that we find so captivating? As stormy, turbulent waters repeatedly crash rocks into one another, their sharp edges chip away, transforming jagged stones into...
How Do We Rebuild After an Affair?

How Do We Rebuild After an Affair?

by Finding Solutions Together | Mar 5, 2025 | Change, Conflict, Crisis, Infidelity, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Problem-Solving, Separation & Divorce

Is the Impossible Truly Possible? The outcome hinges on our mindset. When lies and betrayal have taken over a relationship, it’s natural for couples to consider ending things. Often, this decision isn’t driven by a lack of love, but rather by the automatic...
How Can I Have a More Balanced Marriage / Romance?

How Can I Have a More Balanced Marriage / Romance?

by Nicole Bolotenko | Jan 10, 2025 | Conflict, Infidelity, Love & Relationships, Marriage

Imagine children playing on a teeter-totter at the park – they may be laughing smiling, laughing, kicking and of course having fun! While playing they use skills such as cooperation and balance to enjoy their time. Now imagine a marriage with these skills – how would...
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