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After The Affair

After The Affair

by Nicole Bolotenko | May 22, 2025 | Affairs and Adultery, Anger Management, Change, Conflict, Crisis, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Separation & Divorce, Sexuality

by Janis Abrahms Spring How do you forgive your partner when they do not take responsibilities for their transgressions? (With this question we are taking the position that this may be a major transgression like an affair) Often we hear from clients that they feel the...

Stop the Complaining Voice Today!

by Nicole Bolotenko | May 14, 2025 | Change, Conflict, Family, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Mental Health

The other day I was waiting in line and a couple behind me were talking about the tons of errands, responsibilities and chores they had to get done. “We have to get the groceries done, but then we gotta make dinner and take Joey to hockey.” “But I have to finish up...

Hope From Separation and Divorce?

by Finding Solutions Together | May 3, 2025 | Anxiety, Change, Cooperative Parenting, Death and Loss, Family, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Separation & Divorce

A Formidable Weapon Against Adversity… Hope I wouldn’t recommend a divorce as a pathway for personal growth, but this is exactly what happened to me. I was married for almost 10 years, and was abruptly separated after my wife decided to leave the marriage. While...
How Do We Rebuild After an Affair?

How Do We Rebuild After an Affair?

by Finding Solutions Together | Mar 5, 2025 | Affairs and Adultery, Change, Conflict, Crisis, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Problem-Solving, Separation & Divorce

Is the Impossible Truly Possible? The outcome hinges on our mindset. When lies and betrayal have taken over a relationship, it’s natural for couples to consider ending things. Often, this decision isn’t driven by a lack of love, but rather by the automatic...
Separation and Divorce: Should I leave? We have kids, what do I do?

Separation and Divorce: Should I leave? We have kids, what do I do?

by Finding Solutions Together | Feb 19, 2025 | Conflict, Family, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Separation & Divorce

So many people make this decision far too quickly and with minimal or biased information.  After working in the counselling field for over twenty years, I have grown increasingly “pro family.” We often hear the following two main thoughts about separating… “I might as...
Hey, Remember Me? Your Significant Other!

Hey, Remember Me? Your Significant Other!

by Finding Solutions Together | Feb 7, 2025 | Change, Family, Love & Relationships, Marriage, Sexuality

“We have kids now! There’s no time for intimacy!” “NOT NOW! I’m too tired!” “You want to try what???” Do you remember when you first met your partner? Remember the passion, the flirting, the loving gestures, the quickies? Then two,...
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