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Depression and the Inner Critic: Breaking Free From Self-Attack

Depression and the Inner Critic: Breaking Free From Self-Attack

by Nicole Bolotenko | Oct 23, 2025 | Depression

When Your Mind Turns Against You  Depression is often accompanied by an inner critic — that persistent voice in your head pointing out flaws, magnifying mistakes, or whispering that you’re not enough. These self-critical thoughts can intensify feelings of sadness,...
Grief Has No Timeline: Understanding the Stages of Loss

Grief Has No Timeline: Understanding the Stages of Loss

by Nicole Bolotenko | Oct 21, 2025 | Grief

Grief Is Unique to You  Loss is one of the most universally human experiences — yet it is also profoundly personal. Whether it’s the death of a loved one, the end of a relationship, a career change, or another life-altering event, grief can hit in waves, affecting...
Keeping Desire Alive: A Guide to Sex in Long-Term Relationships

Keeping Desire Alive: A Guide to Sex in Long-Term Relationships

by Nicole Bolotenko | Oct 2, 2025 | Love & Relationships

Love Lasts, But Desire Needs Nurturing  Couples often come to therapy with a familiar question: “Why don’t we feel the same spark we used to?” The truth is, sustaining passionate sex in long-term relationships isn’t about failing love — it’s about how love and desire...
Breaking Free from People-Pleasing & Perfectionism: How Self-Compassion Can Change Your Life

Breaking Free from People-Pleasing & Perfectionism: How Self-Compassion Can Change Your Life

by Nicole Bolotenko | Aug 28, 2025 | Growth & Development, Mental Health

Why This Struggle Feels So Heavy If you’ve ever said “yes” when every part of you wanted to say “no,” or found yourself rewriting an email for the tenth time so it feels “just right,” you’re not alone. People-pleasing and perfectionism often go hand in hand. They can...
How Secure Attachment Strengthens Intimacy, Communication, and Conflict Resolution in Couples Therapy

How Secure Attachment Strengthens Intimacy, Communication, and Conflict Resolution in Couples Therapy

by Nicole Bolotenko | Aug 25, 2025 | Love & Relationships

If you and your partner have ever felt “stuck” in cycles of distance, tension, or miscommunication, you’re not alone. In couples therapy and relationship counselling, one of the most powerful factors we explore is attachment style—how each partner feels and responds...
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